I get a lot of calls from people who want to tell a fantasy to a partner, but they are scared to do so. It’s a valid concern. Once you’ve told your partner what you are into sexually, you can’t take it back. If it causes problems in your relationship, if your partner is squicked-out…
Tag: sex
“Monogamish”
My friend said she was “monogamish” with her boyfriend. What does that mean? Coined by Dan Savage, this term is used to describe a relationship where both parties are primarily monogamous, but are free to engage in sexual relationships with other people, as long as their partner gives informed consent. Informed consent includes drug, mental…
The intersection between therapy and play
I got a message from an interested reader, “G”, this morning: “I guess i’m most interested in the intersection between therapy and play. Can pleasure and traditional phone sex be therapeutic?” My background is in sex therapy, and I’ve only been doing phone sex for a few months, so this is a question I’ve been…
Finding a Sex-Positive Sex Therapist!
Why would I need a “real life” therapist? Aren’t you good enough? There are many reasons I refer clients to sex therapists off of NF, and many remain my clients while having a real life sex therapist. I’m most likely to refer a client who wants to work with a sex therapist with their partner…
Porn Sex vs Real Sex – Explained with food.
I thought this was great fun. Although, I did wince a couple of times – you have been warned! 😛 I’d be interested to know the population from which they drew their averages. If you want to talk about the stats I know and the studies I draw them from, leave a comment, write me…