I get a lot of calls from people who want to tell a fantasy to a partner, but they are scared to do so. It’s a valid concern. Once you’ve told your partner what you are into sexually, you can’t take it back. If it causes problems in your relationship, if your partner is squicked-out…
Tag: communication
Slash speak in D/s
Slash speak has become important for some online BDSM relationships. It’s a matter of protocol. Slash speak is all about capitalizing pronouns and titles relating to dominants/tops and using lower case for submissives/bottoms. It’s one ritual way that power exchange and respect can be shown in written form. The slash comes in when both a…
Letter: “Forced” bi fantasies
Hi Miss Annalise, I would like to call you sometime about this. My wife knows I am a cross dresser. She caught me in her clothes a couple of years ago. She was okay about it, but it doesn’t turn her on. I do it when she isn’t home. My wife does not know that…
Cuckolding Question, Part One (is it “wrong”?)
Dear Miss Annalise, I have a fantasy for years. My wife puts me in the closet and I watch her with a black guy. Then she gets me out and makes me do stuff and makes fun of my tiny cock. Is this really wrong and should I tell her I want to do it…